January is not yet over and many of us, yours truly included, have broken our new year resolutions countless times. Just to remind us that it's not over until it's over, keep going. Fall and stand back up, make mistakes and correct them.

  No one is perfect and I do not expect you to be, so go ahead and have those flaws, like the spots on a leopard, they make you beautiful. Don't be too hard on yourself, be patient with yourself, your situation, God and others. Above all, make sure you are happy, life is too short.

  I know that the popular saying is, put God first, others next and yourself last but I say, put God first, yourself next and others last, because that's the only way you can be happy. Love and accept love, be compassionate and kind. Keep going. 

                      Your sister in the struggle,
                                         Chizny.